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Reed Warren (1958-2024)

OBITUARY of Reed Warren

Reed has crossed the sparkling bridge (and took his wig with him!!!!), earlier this month..... I LOVE him forever, and will miss his human form, continuing to look for signs that he is out and about, and keeping ahold of the many memories we created in 30 years of being together, while living together, for almost half of them.

Honey, I LOVE YOU

Obituary of Reed

In a manner of how he lived his life, loyalty, dedicated and loving, strong, detailed, held on to his values and relationships, finally passing in early January, surprising our expectations, due to his strong will to live

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Raised in Torrence, CA, Reed was the younger brother of 2 (Sylvia/Reed) and strived to be the best at whatever he was doing (home projects, educational goas, career).  He met his life partner Dave, in 1995, marrying in 2021, on a Hornblower yacht in San Diego harbor

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A hard worker, and intense achiever, Reed earned his MBA at Harvard, working to earn his keep (NOT during school-- he'd of gone nuts!), supporting himself throughout to get through that difficult patch to his goals.  His undergraduate work was at UC Berkeley.
This entrepreneurial spirit and drive, landed him at Earnst & Young, worked his way up, then left to start his own consulting firm, Warren Consulting, back in the late 1980s. 
Reeds interests were the piano, where he would play his 8 or 10 favorites by memory, as he used that as therapy, traveling to many national parks, like Kings Canyon, and Yosemite, traveling to Europe twice, last going in 2019, detailed recordkeeping on spreadsheets, many home projects (you'll see a lot of them if you come to the Celebration of Life on January 28th (see https://stravinskyuno.wixsite.com/my-site-1), because he was a DIY'er to the nth degree. He enjoyed his SF Chronicle, LA Times, Wall Street Journal, usually tossing aside the "living & sports section" (Dave had first and only dibs on those sections)

Reed is survived by his husband of 2 years (soulmates for nearly 30), sister Sylvia, and many who loved and adopted him.

 


Reed lost his battle with glioblastoma (a terminal brain tumor earlier in January.  He fought it tooth and nail for 18 months, while managing a poor quality of life, after the cranitomy in August 2022.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Reed's favorite charities:  WILDWOOD FOUNDATION (http://www.wildwoodretreat.org)  Reed spent many days and events there through Body Electric (Sacred Intimates) and the HRC (Human Rights Campaign) [www.hrc.org] both organizations that he was generous with.

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From Reed to Dave
I’m sorry that I had to leave you..
I hate watching you miss me and cry.
But please don’t spend too much time being sad.
And don’t spend too much time questioning why.
My death showed you that tomorrow isn’t promised
So live and enjoy life whilst you can
And when you feel sad thinking, “I’m not with you,
Please don’t ever doubt that I am.
I’m with you in all your big moments
I’ve seen everything that you have done.
I’m so proud of everything you have achieved,
And so proud of who you’ve become
Don’t worry about all the things you didn’t say.
Don’t feel guilty whenever you feel happy
I promise you I’m okay now,
So don’t feel guilty for living life without me.
I’d hate to think my death destroyed you.
I want you to be brave and carry on.
Although, I’m not physically with you,
The love we shared could never be gone.
So, don’t worry about what we didn’t get to do,
Because you can do so much with your time
And always remember when you think of me,
That love can never ever die.

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